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Starting primary school is an important step for a child. Because developmental rates vary so much between the ages of 4 and 7 years, the actual time of readiness for each child also varies. Readiness does not predict how smart, competent, or talented a child will be later on; rather, it is a measure of a child's social maturity now.
Read A Kindergarten Readiness Guide
 
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Why playing is so seriousPlay is as vital to child development as learning to read, write or do sums!
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Preschool Readiness

 
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Preschool ReadinessBy the time a child is 3, she is usually ready for a regular experience outside the home with other children and adults. It's time to consider preschool.
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My 2-year-old son cannot keep his hands out of his nappies (clean ones). Specifically, he seems to scratch at his anus and immediately put his thumb in his mouth. If we prevent him from doing it, he gets quite upset. Any suggestions? We've discussed this with our doctor and he's at a loss (we've ruled out threadworms). We've tried substituting soft blankets and other tactile items to no avail.
Read How to keep my 2-year-old from putting his hands in his diapers?
 
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Watching television is neither 'good' nor 'bad' in itself. What really matters is what your children watch, how frequently they watch it, and whether or not they are left unsupervised in front of the screen for long periods. Here are some important points to consider.
Read Television: Friend Or Foe?
 
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We have to put our dog to sleep. Should we tell my daughter he has died? Or should we tell her he ran away - or something else?
Read Should we tell my daughter the dog has died?
 
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My son is 2 1/2 years old and still uses his dummy. When we go out, we can forget his bottle or nappies, but definitely not the dummy. He uses it to sleep and it soothes him when he is tired. Personally, I think he uses it for emotional support. We have tried to get rid of it, but something important always happens and I feel guilty about taking it away. Is the best approach to simply throw it away one day and patiently let him cry it out for a week? Or do you have any better advice?
Read What is the best approach to taking away a dummy?
 
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We have a 2-year-old who wakes up grouchy every morning, crying, screaming, just like he's angry. This is every morning. What can we do to stop him being such a grump?
Read Our 2-year-old wakes up crabby every morning -- what should we do?
 
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Children's SensitivitiesAll children will experience sensitivities throughout their childhood.
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Are 'masculine' and 'feminine' behaviour patterns learnt, or are girls and boys simply pre-programmed to act differently? Nobody knows for sure but it's certainly true that people reinforce the gender differences with subtle behavioural clues. Do you talk about 'big strong boys' or 'Daddy's little princess'? Find out more!
Read Gender Differences: Nature Or Nurture?
 
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My 26-month-old daughter sucks her thumb a lot and has never used a dummy. She is beginning to get buck teeth. Will this affect her permanent teeth? At what age should I begin to try to break this habit and what are a few techniques to do so?
Read Will my daughter's thumb-sucking impact her permanent teeth?
 
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My four-year-old son wakes up screaming uncontrollably at night and sometimes gets out of bed and walks around in his sleep. He has his eyes open but is still asleep, and is extremely intense and loud. Frankly, it scares me. Is something wrong with him? Does he need help, or is this normal?
Read What should I do about my 4-year-old's uncontrollable screaming?
 
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How should a parent react when a preschool child (age 3) repeats a swear word again and again that she heard somewhere?
Read How should a parent react when a 3-year-old uses swear words?
 
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My 27-month-old daughter is wonderful except that she still puts everything in her mouth. I can't even sit her down with Play Dough or crayons because she puts them in her mouth as soon as I turn my back. I've offered her food instead, smacked her and taken things away to stop this behaviour, but she ate a crayon again today. What can I do?
Read how can I stop my 27-month-old from putting everything in her mouth?
 
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Learning to crawl is a significant milestone for your little one but it can bring problems too. Now your baby is mobile and 'into everything', you will face territorial battles as they try to get their hands on big sibling's possessions. Peaceful co-existence is the long-term goal but we have a few strategies for limiting the tantrums in the short-term.
Read Now Your Baby'S Crawling!
 
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I'm concerned about flat feet. My toddler of 27 months has a visible arch when she sits, but when she stands her foot is flat. Are her arches still developing? Should I be concerned? I read that a toddler loses her fat pad once she begins to walk.
Read My toddler has flat feet -- are her arches still developing?
 
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The results may not be up to gourmet standards but baking a cake together is very enjoyable. It's fun, but both your children will be learning about reading, maths, physics and chemistry at the same time... although they won't realise it!
Read Creative Family Cooking Activities

Learning about 'no!'

 
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The original meaning of the word discipline is teaching - not punishment.
Read Learning about 'no!'
 
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My granddaughter, who will be 3, has started saying that she doesn't like herself, and says, "I could just kill myself." We have tried to reassure her that she is a very special little girl and that we love her very much. What more should we do to help her through these negative thoughts? Where could she be getting these ideas?
Read How can we help our granddaughter feel better about herself?

Table Manners

 
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Table MannersTo help empower children to learn manners in the family setting, the dinner table is a good place to start.
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My friend has a 2-year-old who, according to the doctor, has the speech development of a 1-year-old. How concerned should one be about this child's speaking ability?
Read Is it okay if a 2-year-old has the speech development of a 1-year-old?
 
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My 5-year-old daughter is having night terrors. What can we do to help her through them? And is there anything we can do to prevent them?
Read What can we do to help our 5-year-old through night terrors?
 
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My son has been going to school for about a month now. At first, he cried. After two weeks he seemed to get used to it, except for one thing: he will not eat at school. He loves to eat at home and feeds himself. I've done everything I can think of to ease him into this situation. Is there anything else I should be doing? I really don't like my son to go all day without sustenance.
Read What can I do to ensure my son eats well at school during the day?
 
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My 2-year-old son is refusing to eat dinner in the evening. I give him a choice, within reason, as to what he can eat at lunchtime, but at dinnertime I don't make anything extra. My husband and I are having lots of disagreements as to what we should do about this. My husband thinks that he should be forced to sit at the table with us until he eats, or at least until we finish dinner. My son just screams when this is done, and I don't feel that we're getting anywhere. I feel that if he isn't going to eat it, I'm not going to force the issue, but I don't reward this by giving him treats. What is the right way to handle this? Should I be offering him his dinner continuously throughout the evening if he gets hungry or offering him anything which is nutritious that he will eat?
Read What should I do when my 2-year-old refuses to eat dinner?
 
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My 27-month-old son does not speak, whereas other children his age are able to speak in sentences. He says only about 10 or 12 meaningful English words - the rest are all sounds. But he understands completely everything we say. His doctor says it is because we speak our native language (Hindi) at home, and everywhere else, including on the television, he hears English. We are very worried - what should we do?
Read My 27-month-old son does not speak English -- what should we do?

Manners

 
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The development of manners is a key milestone for a child as they develop social skills and good habits for life.
Read Manners

Call time-out

 
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Many parents are unsure how to use the 'time-out' technique.
Read Call time-out
 
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Is it normal for my 4-year-old to have temper tantrums?My once laid-back son is now a belligerent 4-year-old. He has begun having tantrums and they start over the simplest of issues. I am at my wits' end. It's like someone has replaced my son. He has just started nursery school and has a 1-year-old sister, which I know causes him stress. However, this behaviour seems to be extreme. Does he need to see a professional or is this a normal stage of development? HELP!
Read Is it normal for my 4-year-old to have temper tantrums?
 
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My daughter will be 3 tomorrow, and for the last six months she has insisted that she is a boy. I never thought I would be concerned, but it is getting to the point that it is all she thinks about. How should I handle it? Should I be concerned?
Read My 3-year-old daughter insists she's a boy -- should I be concerned?
 
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My 2 1/2-year-old son refuses to be sociable to his father. He grunts, rolls over, runs away, says "Go away", and won't greet his father without a lot of coaxing from me. If my husband wants to change him or help him in any way, our son asks for me to do it. Is this behaviour normal? I am the main carer and a stay-at-home mum. Can we do anything to change our child's reaction?
Read Is it okay for my 2 1/2-year-old son not to be sociable to his father?
 
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Starting nursery school, a visit to the doctor, going out to parties or play-dates, or visiting friends and relatives can be daunting for a two year-old. You can use role-play to work through worrying situations in advance, and remember that big sibling's reassuring presence can go a long way to making a shy child feel more confident.
Read Rehearsing New Social Situations With Role-Play
 
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I'm an 18-year-old single mother of a 3-year-old boy. He does not know his father at all. The problem is that he hugs any man he sees when we go out. I try to get him to shake hands instead, because it makes me uncomfortable when he hugs strangers. The men usually say "It's okay", but I don't think it is normal or healthy behaviour for him. What can I do to make him stop being so friendly?
Read My 3-year-old son hugs any man he meets -- what should I do?
 
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Now your youngest child is putting toddlerhood behind them, what are your hopes and dreams for your children's futures? How can you help them make confident choices as they grow up?
Read Looking To The Future - Who Will Your Children Grow Up To Be?
 
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My 20-month-old daughter continually throws her food and drinks. How can I get her to stop?
Read How can I get my toddler to stop throwing her food?
 
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My 1-year-old daughter has a cleft of the soft palate and we are having some problems teaching her to drink from a training cup and straw. She just doesn't know to suck. She has been using a special nipple (Medela Haberman) since she was about a week old. Do you have any suggestions? She will have surgery to correct the cleft in a few months.
Read How can I teach my 1-year-old, who has a cleft palate, to drink?
 
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My daughter is 26 months old and has recently begun to lick everything: table tops, floors, windows, mirrors and even floors in public places. Not only is this embarrassing, but can't it also make her ill? And why is she doing this? Does she lack vitamins? She has even licked the cat and vomited because the fur was in her throat. Is my daughter's behaviour normal?
Read My 26-month-old licks everything -- is this normal?

Through the years

 
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Through the yearsThere are three main developmental areas: physical, cognitive and social.
Read Through the years
 
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I have twin 4-year-old boys who are intensely competitive. How can I encourage a harmonious relationship between them?
Read How can I nurture peaceful co-existence between my 4-year-old twins?
 
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Martial arts, dance or music are all fun activities that your older child can enjoy with children of his own age. New interests outside the home can build up a child's self-confidence and encourage them to see the benefits of being 'big'.
Read Building Self-Esteem With Activities Outside The Home

Expert Q&A:
How do I pick a good pre-school?

 
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How do I pick a good pre-school?What are some good questions to ask when screening pre-schools?
Read How do I pick a good pre-school?
 
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Three-year-olds are great fun to take in for a check-up.
Read Well baby visit - three years

Fears and anxities

 
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At aged four to five years, your child will start developing fears and anxieties about the world around him, such as a fear of darkness.
Read Fears and anxities
 
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My 16-month-old understands most of what I say. But when it comes to "Don't touch" or "Don't do that", he seems to want to challenge me because he'll do whatever I tell him not to anyway. How can I help him understand what is fine to touch and what isn't without saying "no" a thousand times a day?
Read How can I help my toddler understand what is okay to touch?
 
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Birthdays, anniversaries, Christmas, Eid, Hogmanay, Hanukkah, Diwali - whatever your beliefs, your family can follow existing traditions or create your own. Why are ritual and routines important for children?
Read Your Own, Special Family Calendar
 
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My sister gave my 18-month-old son a hamster with a cage and all the stuff that goes with it. We keep trying to teach him to pet the hamster and hold it gently but he's still very rough. He's been bitten several times and still doesn't learn. My mum says to get rid of it, but I'd like him to learn to be kind to animals and eventually to learn to take care of a pet.
Read How can I teach my 18-month-old to be gentle with his pet?
 
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What can we do to make dressing our 28-month-old easier?My son is 28 months old and we have a hard time dressing him. He only wants to wear pyjamas. What can we do?
Read What can we do to make dressing our 28-month-old easier?
 
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My 3-year-old has been stuttering for two months now. Sometimes she seems better, then all of a sudden she has a really bad day. Do you think school will do her good? Or will the children make fun of her?
Read My 3-year-old stutters -- will preschool help or make it worse?
 
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My 26-month-old daughter becomes upset when her young friends visit our house. She'll shout, "Go away!" and start hitting herself on the head. Is this normal behaviour? How can I help her through this? I'm afraid that no one will want to play with her.
Read Is it okay for my toddler to hit herself when playmates are around?
 
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How can we help our 2 1/2-year-old daughter stand up for herself?Our 2 1/2-year-old daughter is very easy-going and generous in nature (which is fantastic!). However, during play we have noticed regularly that other children take the toys she is playing with. She doesn't seem to be able to stand up for herself (although verbally she is very proficient) and take them back. Instead she just cries, forcing someone to intervene. In the past we have let children take things from her, choosing not to fight all her battles. However, we are now concerned that she is just going to become a "pushover". She seems to be an overly sensitive child. Do you have any suggestions?
Read How can we help our 2 1/2-year-old daughter stand up for herself?
 
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My 23-month-old daughter has screaming fits that last more than 15 minutes. Usually they start for very small reasons such as not getting milk in the cup she wants. I have tried everything from ignoring her to giving in to her demands to getting my 3-year-old to intercede. Nothing seems to work. Any suggestions for a frustrated mum?
Read How should I react to my toddler's screaming fits?
 
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How can we get our 18-month-old to drink from a cup?How can we get our 18-month-old to drink from a cup?
Read How can we get our 18-month-old to drink from a cup?
 
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My 3-year-old can't stand being wrong. He will say, "I have a blue car", when the car is red. If I correct him, he insists it's blue and won't stop yelling until I agree. I don't want him to be lost when he gets to school. Will this phase pass?
Read Why can't my 3-year-old accept being wrong?
 
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My 22-month-old grandson is from a very large family. This happy child will go anywhere with anyone. I can't help wondering if it's normal to willingly go anywhere with anyone.
Read Is it normal for a 22-month-old to go anywhere with anyone?

Where's grandma?

 
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A grandparent's illness and death can disrupt daily routines and send family emotions into overdrive.
Read Where's grandma?
 
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Our 2 1/2-year-old daughter started attending nursery six weeks ago and her behaviour has since become intolerable. When we leave her there she starts crying - and she can keep it up for two or three hours. She has very few tear-free days and many tantrums. Are we taking a major step back if we return her to a childminding situation with a family?
Read Are we taking a major step back if we return my daughter to babysitting?
 
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My daughter is 22 months old and still nursing. She nurses only two to three times a day when we're at home, usually before bed and nap time. The problem is she asks (sometimes quite loudly) to nurse when we're out in public. Do you have any suggestions? Is she too old to continue nursing?
Read Is my 22-month-old too old to be nursing?
 
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How can I help my toddler adjust to having a new baby sister?My 16-month-old son welcomed his new baby sister home a month ago and seemed to love her instantly. Now he's very upset. He won't eat like he used to and throws tantrums. I tried to introduce them properly by letting him touch her and show her all his toys. I try to pay equal attention to both except for breastfeeding the new baby and not my son. He recently stopped being breastfed. Is there anything I can do to help him?
Read How can I help my toddler adjust to having a new baby sister?
 
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Out and about with your childYour little one still has lots to figure out about the world and the people in it. One thing that's pretty much settled, though, is Mummy's role: Mummy is her Mummy, and that's that. Now it’s time to broaden this view.
Read Out and about with your child

Don't! Won't, shan't!

 
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Don't! Won't, shan't!We want our children to behave well but without suppressing creativity or sense of self.
Read Don't! Won't, shan't!
 
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Is there a mathematical method of using birth length to estimate final adult height?
Read Is there a mathematical method of using birth length to estimate final adult height?