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Why playing is so seriousPlay is as vital to child development as learning to read, write or do sums!
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What's an appropriate attention span for a 16-month-old?Is there any standard guideline for attention span in children? What would be the appropriate attention span for a 16-month-old child?
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How do I handle a friend of my son's who can't keep her hands off him? My 18-month-old has a friend who is almost 3 years old and is always touching him. He doesn't always mind, but she always has her hand in his hair or arms wrapped round his neck. What should I do?
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How can I help the development of my gifted 15-month-old?I am interested in receiving information regarding indicators of gifted children. My son is 15 1/2 months old and has a vocabulary of 140 words, and he adds more words every day. He is zipping through his motor milestones as well. He can unlock the "childproof" cabinet locks, too. I am curious to find out whether this is usual behaviour for a baby his age, and I would like suggestions on how to further facilitate his development.
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Our son will be 17 months old soon and although he is taking his first steps, he is still unsteady and would prefer to hold our finger and take us around. Should we be allowing this or continually encouraging independent walking? He also does not like eating with utensils, and prefers using his hands. He has been eating like this since he was 9 months old and has not mastered scooping his food. Should we insist that he eat yoghurt with a spoon, or just allow him to eat with his hands?
Read Is it normal for a 17-month-old to still be eating with his hands?
 
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My child is now 18 months old. She was born about a month early, but I have never been instructed to see her as a "prem baby". She was five pounds at birth. She seems to be about six months behind all her counterparts though. I childmind from home and have really given her a wide berth and freedom to learn on her own. Should I have been more hands-on? Is something wrong? What can I do to help her be more interactive and responsive? I'm so worried I've messed her up.
Read Is something wrong with my child if she's 6 months behind her peers?
 
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Your baby demands so much attention that your toddler thinks the only way to get noticed is to act like an infant too. Just when you thought your older child had grown out of nappies and was happy to eat like a grown-up, do you have to resort to spoon-feeding and potty-training again? Don't worry - this annoying stage is perfectly natural and won't last long.
Read As Your Baby Grows, Is Your Toddler Regressing?
 
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I have a 14-month-old who often grabs at my face. He is learning about ears, nose, mouth, etc., so I hate to tell him no when he touches these facial features. Often, though, his grabbing is too hard and draws blood. Other times, out of anger or when he is tired, he will violently grab at my face. I notice he does this only with me and not his father. I firmly tell him no, hold his hand, or hold him tight, but none of these things have worked (they just make him more angry). Do you have any suggestions?
Read How can I stop my 14-month-old from grabbing my face?
 
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I am expecting my second child this month. My daughter will be 22 months old when the new baby arrives and I am trying to tell her that a new baby is coming. Is she too young to understand? Will she be able to comprehend the situation before the new baby arrives, or do I just have to wait until both are at home together to find out how she will behave?
Read How should I tell my 22-month-old that a new baby is coming?
 
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My daughter is now 16 months old. Her feet are a bit bent, and my sister is advising me to buy her shoes or boots that will straighten her feet. What is your comment on this? If I leave her feet alone, will they straighten out in time?
Read Will special shoes straighten out my 16-month-old's bent feet?
 
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How can I get my 1-year-old to feed himself?My baby will be a year old in a few weeks and still will not eat by himself. He has absolutely no interest in even trying finger foods. He just throws everything on the floor. I show him how to pick it up and eat it; I stop his hand and say, "Don't throw. We eat the carrots, apples or whatever", but he throws it and just cries until I feed him from the spoon. Should he be eating by himself by now? If so, what can I do to encourage/help him? Will my continuing to feed him pose any eating problems later on?
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My 22-month-old daughter has started biting her fingernails and will not stop. She sees her dad bite his. What can I do to stop her? She already has an infection under one nail.
Read How can I help my 22-month-old stop biting her fingernails?
 
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What should I do when my 19-month-old son calls his nanny "Mummy"?
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My 20-month-old daughter was diagnosed with sensory dysfunction. Can you give me the latest news on therapy and perhaps a hotline for parents or support groups? I am a single mum with two children - I could really do with some help.
Read Where can I find help for a 20-month-old with sensory dysfunction?
 
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Building your child's confidence:From the moment your baby starts to move around by herself - be it crawling, bottom shuffling or taking those first wobbly steps - she discovers a new and very interesting fact: that she can choose, to some degree, where to go and what to do.
Read Building your child's confidence:
 
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Will your toddler be upset, anxious, feel hurt or be badly behaved? Discuss the possible problems beforehand and work out strategies to make sure the siblings' first meeting goes as smoothly as possible.
Read How Will Your Toddler Greet The New Arrival?
 
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My son was born seven weeks early on 25/10/96; his due date was 16/12/96. Will my son be a year old on 25/10 or should I wait until 16/12 to celebrate his birthday? At the moment, he's holding on to things and trying to walk. From all the books I've read, it seems he lags behind others of the same chronological age in reaching this milestone. Is it because he was premature? He weighed 4 pounds, 11 ounces at birth.
Read Will my premature son be slower to reach certain milestones?
 
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Learning to crawl is a significant milestone for your little one but it can bring problems too. Now your baby is mobile and 'into everything', you will face territorial battles as they try to get their hands on big sibling's possessions. Peaceful co-existence is the long-term goal but we have a few strategies for limiting the tantrums in the short-term.
Read Now Your Baby'S Crawling!
 
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A babysitting circle of local parents can offer support and security. If you can find a group of like-minded mums and dads, why not give it a go? Not only will it give you more freedom but it's good for your children when you have lots of positive interaction with other adults.
Read Why Not Form A Babysitting Group?
 
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My 1 1/2-year-old daughter seems to have become very mean since my mum moved out of the house. All of the little children at nursery treat her like the school bully and are afraid of her, and a lot of parents are starting to criticise me. What can I do to change my daughter back to the nice baby she used to be?
Read How can I help my 1 1/2-year-old daughter be less mean?
 
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When it comes to learning to read, the process begins long before your child starts school. Most children will have grown familiar with the letters of the alphabet on your refrigerator door or the side of the bath, long before they see them on a classroom blackboard. Your little one can play with, and learn from, your first-born too!
Read Learning To Read Starts Early
 
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Well-baby visit: 18 months-2 yearsWell-baby visit: 18 months-2 years
Read Well-baby visit: 18 months-2 years
 
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My 18-month-old son has started hitting other children quite a bit. He doesn't do it hard enough to really hurt. It is really his way of getting negative attention from me. I have no idea how to handle this. What should I do when we are in public and he walks up to a stranger and hits him/her? I have an older child so we can't just leave the situation, because it isn't fair to my 2 1/2-year-old. Please help! I'm really stuck.
Read How do I react when my 18-month-old approaches and hits a stranger?
 
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Separation Struggles for Child and ParentSeparation from a parent is a normal part of childhood development, and of parenting too. It's marked by developmental milestones like learning to use the potty and going to day care or nursery.
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Can I do anything to encourage my baby to walk?My son has just turned 1, but he still prefers crawling to walking. He's been pulling himself up since 7 months and could stand and walk short distances with no problem at 9 months. Can I do anything to encourage walking?
Read Can I do anything to encourage my baby to walk?
 
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I work full-time and my husband has stayed at home with our 17-month-old daughter since she was born. Is it normal for her to seem almost mad at me when I first get home from work? For about the first half-hour, she won't look at me or talk to me. If I try to pick her up she reaches for her dad. Is this a normal developmental stage?
Read Is it okay for my 17-month-old to be mad at me when I come home from work?
 
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Should I let my baby learn to walk in shoes?In Germany, where we're from, children learn to walk barefoot. But a shoe shop in the UK told me doctors here recommend children learn with shoes for better balance. Should I let my 9-month-old learn to walk in shoes?
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Call time-out

 
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Many parents are unsure how to use the 'time-out' technique.
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You can subtly encourage playing together with your choice of toys - paints, musical instruments or a dressing-up box can encourage cooperative, creative play. Toy farms, airports or zoos can feed a developing imagination.
Read Toys For Two Children Together
 
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We have 16-month-old triplets and I want to make sure that we do not overlook their language development. We have a 5-year-old who talked very early. It is different with the triplets, as I am not talking to each one of them as much. Do you have any tips how we can make sure that they get the necessary language stimulation? I have also heard that multiple-birth children develop their own language. They do seem to use a kind of sign language and sounds to each other.
Read How can I provide language stimulation for my 16-month-old triplets?
 
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My 2 1/2-year-old son refuses to be sociable to his father. He grunts, rolls over, runs away, says "Go away", and won't greet his father without a lot of coaxing from me. If my husband wants to change him or help him in any way, our son asks for me to do it. Is this behaviour normal? I am the main carer and a stay-at-home mum. Can we do anything to change our child's reaction?
Read Is it okay for my 2 1/2-year-old son not to be sociable to his father?
 
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How do you wean from the bottle to the training cup? I've been working on this with my 15-month-old daughter for three months, but she refuses to use the cup. I've tried everything I can think of, but nothing works. I've even tried going cold turkey like her doctor said, but she holds out and just doesn't drink anything. I always give in because I'm afraid of dehydration. Most mums that I talk to haven't had this problem at all and I don't know what to do.
Read How do I wean my daughter from the bottle to the sippy cup?
 
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How can I get my 20-month-old son to say what he wants instead of whining and pointing? For example, he says "wahwah" for anything to drink. Usually it means milk - if we give him juice or water he throws a fit. He knows the difference. But he won't say milk, juice or water, even if he knows the word. How can we encourage him?
Read How can I get my 20-month-old to say words instead of whining?
 
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My 20-month-old daughter continually throws her food and drinks. How can I get her to stop?
Read How can I get my toddler to stop throwing her food?
 
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My 16-month-old understands most of what I say. But when it comes to "Don't touch" or "Don't do that", he seems to want to challenge me because he'll do whatever I tell him not to anyway. How can I help him understand what is fine to touch and what isn't without saying "no" a thousand times a day?
Read How can I help my toddler understand what is okay to touch?
 
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My sister gave my 18-month-old son a hamster with a cage and all the stuff that goes with it. We keep trying to teach him to pet the hamster and hold it gently but he's still very rough. He's been bitten several times and still doesn't learn. My mum says to get rid of it, but I'd like him to learn to be kind to animals and eventually to learn to take care of a pet.
Read How can I teach my 18-month-old to be gentle with his pet?
 
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What can we do to make dressing our 28-month-old easier?My son is 28 months old and we have a hard time dressing him. He only wants to wear pyjamas. What can we do?
Read What can we do to make dressing our 28-month-old easier?
 
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Birthdays, anniversaries, Christmas, Eid, Hogmanay, Hanukkah, Diwali - whatever your beliefs, your family can follow existing traditions or create your own. Why are ritual and routines important for children?
Read Your Own, Special Family Calendar
 
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My 13-month-old daughter isn't walking yet, though she can pull herself up, climb and crawl. Her sister walked at 7 months. Is this delay normal?
Read Is it normal for my 13-month-old not to walk yet?
 
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My 26-month-old daughter becomes upset when her young friends visit our house. She'll shout, "Go away!" and start hitting herself on the head. Is this normal behaviour? How can I help her through this? I'm afraid that no one will want to play with her.
Read Is it okay for my toddler to hit herself when playmates are around?
 
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My 23-month-old daughter has screaming fits that last more than 15 minutes. Usually they start for very small reasons such as not getting milk in the cup she wants. I have tried everything from ignoring her to giving in to her demands to getting my 3-year-old to intercede. Nothing seems to work. Any suggestions for a frustrated mum?
Read How should I react to my toddler's screaming fits?
 
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How can we help our 2 1/2-year-old daughter stand up for herself?Our 2 1/2-year-old daughter is very easy-going and generous in nature (which is fantastic!). However, during play we have noticed regularly that other children take the toys she is playing with. She doesn't seem to be able to stand up for herself (although verbally she is very proficient) and take them back. Instead she just cries, forcing someone to intervene. In the past we have let children take things from her, choosing not to fight all her battles. However, we are now concerned that she is just going to become a "pushover". She seems to be an overly sensitive child. Do you have any suggestions?
Read How can we help our 2 1/2-year-old daughter stand up for herself?
 
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My 22-month-old grandson is from a very large family. This happy child will go anywhere with anyone. I can't help wondering if it's normal to willingly go anywhere with anyone.
Read Is it normal for a 22-month-old to go anywhere with anyone?
 
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How can we get our 18-month-old to drink from a cup?How can we get our 18-month-old to drink from a cup?
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Out and about with your childYour little one still has lots to figure out about the world and the people in it. One thing that's pretty much settled, though, is Mummy's role: Mummy is her Mummy, and that's that. Now it’s time to broaden this view.
Read Out and about with your child

Where's grandma?

 
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A grandparent's illness and death can disrupt daily routines and send family emotions into overdrive.
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My daughter is 22 months old and still nursing. She nurses only two to three times a day when we're at home, usually before bed and nap time. The problem is she asks (sometimes quite loudly) to nurse when we're out in public. Do you have any suggestions? Is she too old to continue nursing?
Read Is my 22-month-old too old to be nursing?

Don't! Won't, shan't!

 
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Don't! Won't, shan't!We want our children to behave well but without suppressing creativity or sense of self.
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Is there a mathematical method of using birth length to estimate final adult height?
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Our 2 1/2-year-old daughter started attending nursery six weeks ago and her behaviour has since become intolerable. When we leave her there she starts crying - and she can keep it up for two or three hours. She has very few tear-free days and many tantrums. Are we taking a major step back if we return her to a childminding situation with a family?
Read Are we taking a major step back if we return my daughter to babysitting?
 
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My daughter is 26 months old and in the 100th percentile for weight and 60th percentile for height. I am concerned with her weight: She weighs 35 lbs and is always eating or wanting to eat. Will I start an eating disorder by limiting her food intake?
Read Will I trigger an eating disorder if I limit my toddler's food intake?
 
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How can I help my toddler adjust to having a new baby sister?My 16-month-old son welcomed his new baby sister home a month ago and seemed to love her instantly. Now he's very upset. He won't eat like he used to and throws tantrums. I tried to introduce them properly by letting him touch her and show her all his toys. I try to pay equal attention to both except for breastfeeding the new baby and not my son. He recently stopped being breastfed. Is there anything I can do to help him?
Read How can I help my toddler adjust to having a new baby sister?
 
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My son will turn 1 in a couple of weeks. He hasn't yet begun to respond to simple requests such as "Please give me the cup." We speak to him both in Japanese and in English. Could this be confusing him and delaying his language development?
Read Will my son's language development be delayed if he's bilingual?
 
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I have a 2 1/2-year-old son who dribbles constantly. He has all his teeth. Is there a solution?
Read Is there anything I can do to stop my toddler from drooling?
 
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My 22-month-old daughter recently started crossing her eyes. I try not to make a big issue of it but am starting to worry. I can't work out a pattern of when she does it (such as when she is stressed or tired) - she just does it. Should I worry?
Read Should I worry that my 22-month-old daughter crosses her eyes?
 
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What can I do to stop my 14-month-old son from throwing tantrums?My son is 14 months old and if he doesn't get what he wants, he throws a terrible tantrum, throwing himself on the ground or hitting out at whoever happens to be near. Help! What can I do to stop this terrible behaviour?
Read What can I do to stop my 14-month-old son from throwing tantrums?
 
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Home study can open the door to a better career or greater personal fulfilment. Now your children are no longer babies, why not find out about the opportunities open to you?
Read Lifelong Learning For Mums
 
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We will be taking our 19-month-old on her first flight in an aeroplane soon. How can I keep her ears clear during take-offs and landings?
Read How do I keep my toddler's ears clear during take-offs and landings?
 
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I have a 1-year-old who is biting the children at nursery. He doesn't do this at home. He's an only child. What can we do to get him to stop?
Read How can we get our 1-year-old to stop biting the kids at day care?
 
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Electronic recordings of your children's early speech are great accompaniments to their photos, drawings and other mementoes. Their older selves will love listening to what they said as babies.
Read Recorded For Posterity